I was just meditating and the idea of when we are looking, waiting for, or in the process of allowing a certain special person..into our life. The person can never give us that, or anything or even love!!!..They can only come as a reflection of how we "feel" about ourselves..ever..So what is the idea of that special person..how would they make you feel?..maybe loved, special, important, valid, beautiful, pretty, of value..Then it can be handy to think, imagine a specific person and how you would feel with them loving you..Milk the feeling and then drop the attachment to that person..let the needing of them go..Or even maybe play with the words loved, special, important, valid, beautiful, pretty, of value and feelings of these words without any person in mind..And then trust tat the Universe will bring a refection, a manifestation of exactly everything you have created and desired in form..And when that form turns up..it will feel easy and it will feel right, it will feel good.. because it matches that which you are.. Of course it will mean different things to different people, different words..of course I am making this up..but it feels good!!